Love means so many different things to so many different people. At one time love to me was that heart thumping cannot live without you feeling.
As you get older and time has passed and some relationships have come and gone - love changes too.
That doesn't mean I don't think you can't meet Mr. Right and live happily ever after like in a fairy tale because you can. But, it is the quality of the person and the hope we place in other people that may help it to work for you.
You have to love yourself first before you can truly share your love. I have had a broken heart many times all in the name of love.
Some love is going to last forever - like unconditional love for your children.
Other loves will come and go - because that is life. You have to brush yourself off and not be afraid to love again.
It is harder when you are older but it is also better in so many ways. You know what you want - and - you know what you don't want.
If you see those red flags - you pay attention.
I think when your really young - love is blind.
For those who have met the love of their life and are holding on tight - good luck to you.
For those of us who are still looking and hoping - just pray to the Universe to send you that sweet loving person.
Broken hearts take a long time to heal. Trust takes even more time to rebuild.
When you meet someone worth all of the trouble and there is true attraction then I say - go for it.
Your now wise enough to also listen to your head. So go ahead and let Cupid's Arrow strike one more time. Never stop listening to your heart - because - if you find true love it will all be worth it in the end.
Your - Lava-Girl
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Monday, September 9, 2013
Baby Boomers Dating
Yes, I wrote the Lava-Girl song, and even started the book about My Lava-Girl Project.
It kinda was a work in progress that now I have gotten away from so now I will talk about my life.
The trouble with dating when your a baby boomer is it get's harder. Your not in the mood to have head-aches you don't need. When your younger you can put up with more.
I think it all started when I was a young gal and was enchanted by Superman. Can you imagine. Yes, in love with that grand super-hero. I even envied Lois Lane and imagined I was her - that - great journalist.
I mean to have a boyfriend that changed in a telephone booth and could swing you around in mid air and take you places in a swoop of his arm. Imagine?
And, yes, Superman always saved Lois Lane. Otherwise, the heart-ache would have been just too much to bare.
So, I continue my journey as an attractive single lady who just wants one day to run into her Superman.
Could it happen - why not?
Will see.
Lava-Girl
It kinda was a work in progress that now I have gotten away from so now I will talk about my life.
The trouble with dating when your a baby boomer is it get's harder. Your not in the mood to have head-aches you don't need. When your younger you can put up with more.
I think it all started when I was a young gal and was enchanted by Superman. Can you imagine. Yes, in love with that grand super-hero. I even envied Lois Lane and imagined I was her - that - great journalist.
I mean to have a boyfriend that changed in a telephone booth and could swing you around in mid air and take you places in a swoop of his arm. Imagine?
And, yes, Superman always saved Lois Lane. Otherwise, the heart-ache would have been just too much to bare.
So, I continue my journey as an attractive single lady who just wants one day to run into her Superman.
Could it happen - why not?
Will see.
Lava-Girl
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Updating my Lava Girl Project
It has been a very long time since I updated my Lava Girl Project.
Sorry about that.
Yes, Lava Girl is still single and now with great gusto will be joining the dating scene once again to find her handsome prince.
I promise to keep you updated.
Nothing to report as of today, sorry.
Yes, Lava Girl has just got to get out there.
No, so far - the novel - and the - song - have just collected dust.
Cheers
Me - Lava Girl
Sorry about that.
Yes, Lava Girl is still single and now with great gusto will be joining the dating scene once again to find her handsome prince.
I promise to keep you updated.
Nothing to report as of today, sorry.
Yes, Lava Girl has just got to get out there.
No, so far - the novel - and the - song - have just collected dust.
Cheers
Thursday, September 3, 2009
SECRETS ABOUT BLOGGER GIRL AND LAVAGIRL
Blogger Girl -- loves -- LavaGirl -- because -- she is the creator of -- THE LAVAGIRL PROJECT.
TOP SECRET:
Blogger Girl and LavaGirl had -- a crush on Clark Kent -- and got very turned on that he changed in a telephone booth and became -- SUPERMAN. A man in a uniform fighting for the good of mankind is -- very sexy! You now know that Blogger Girl and LavaGirl are both -- true romantics.
Blogger Girl is new at blogging -- finding out about widgets -- sounds like a bunch of bad fairies!
Blogger Girl is trying her best to make the LAVAGIRL PROJECT -- have followers -- hey you out there -- in blogisphere land -- how about hitting on -- friend connect! They say that fairy tales can come true!
A good friend told Blogger Girl to read -- blogging for dummies! Oh no, does that mean that Blogger Girl is really dumb? She hopes not!
Blogger Girl is chasing a dream -- fantasying about how the LAVAGIRL PROJECT -- will make her filthy rich -- why not -- its a dream. They say that if you dream hard enough -- dreams do come true.
Right now Blogger Girl is poor -- it's LavaGirl who becomes rich and famous -- then and only then -- is when the story turns around for poor -- Blogger Girl.
Goodnite to all of you out there in the Blogishere -- may all your dreams come true!
TOP SECRET:
Blogger Girl and LavaGirl had -- a crush on Clark Kent -- and got very turned on that he changed in a telephone booth and became -- SUPERMAN. A man in a uniform fighting for the good of mankind is -- very sexy! You now know that Blogger Girl and LavaGirl are both -- true romantics.
Blogger Girl is new at blogging -- finding out about widgets -- sounds like a bunch of bad fairies!
Blogger Girl is trying her best to make the LAVAGIRL PROJECT -- have followers -- hey you out there -- in blogisphere land -- how about hitting on -- friend connect! They say that fairy tales can come true!
A good friend told Blogger Girl to read -- blogging for dummies! Oh no, does that mean that Blogger Girl is really dumb? She hopes not!
Blogger Girl is chasing a dream -- fantasying about how the LAVAGIRL PROJECT -- will make her filthy rich -- why not -- its a dream. They say that if you dream hard enough -- dreams do come true.
Right now Blogger Girl is poor -- it's LavaGirl who becomes rich and famous -- then and only then -- is when the story turns around for poor -- Blogger Girl.
Goodnite to all of you out there in the Blogishere -- may all your dreams come true!
Sunday, August 30, 2009
WHY LAVAGIRL AND BLOGGER GIRL ARE A DYNAMIC DUO
The reason that LavaGirl and Blogger Girl are a great dynamic duo is because -- they -- believe in each other.
Blogger Girl loves typing away about LavaGirl because -- she see's so many of her own dreams -- her own fantasies -- in LavaGirl. Which ones -- is what Blogger Girl -- will not devulge.
LavaGirl ventures out -- into careless abandonment -- on her love-site. After all -- LavaGirl has her very own IM Angel taking care of her -- or so she thinks. Angel sometimes spies on LavaGirl -- imagine that -- and shuts down her computer -- threatening to end her on-line chatting.
This is when Angel divulges to LavaGirl -- that her tech fairies -- will have to come --on-line -- to get LavaGirl back -- on-line. This always happens when things just start to heat up!
Soon LavaGirl is shouting to the heavens that -- her IM Angel is in fact -- a fallen angel -- and that these so called tech fairies are in fact -- sex fairies!
Blogger Girl loves -- LavaGirl -- unconditionally. She hopes you will too!
Now everyone -- go out and have a LavaGirl party. Invite all of your friends. Make LavaGirl a household name. If you have a good voice -- ok then -- even if you don't -- sing the LavaGirl song.
Now -- raise your glass of wine or beer to toast -- and -- support LAVAGIRL -- Blogger Girl's great project.
Blogger Girl loves typing away about LavaGirl because -- she see's so many of her own dreams -- her own fantasies -- in LavaGirl. Which ones -- is what Blogger Girl -- will not devulge.
LavaGirl ventures out -- into careless abandonment -- on her love-site. After all -- LavaGirl has her very own IM Angel taking care of her -- or so she thinks. Angel sometimes spies on LavaGirl -- imagine that -- and shuts down her computer -- threatening to end her on-line chatting.
This is when Angel divulges to LavaGirl -- that her tech fairies -- will have to come --on-line -- to get LavaGirl back -- on-line. This always happens when things just start to heat up!
Soon LavaGirl is shouting to the heavens that -- her IM Angel is in fact -- a fallen angel -- and that these so called tech fairies are in fact -- sex fairies!
Blogger Girl loves -- LavaGirl -- unconditionally. She hopes you will too!
Now everyone -- go out and have a LavaGirl party. Invite all of your friends. Make LavaGirl a household name. If you have a good voice -- ok then -- even if you don't -- sing the LavaGirl song.
Now -- raise your glass of wine or beer to toast -- and -- support LAVAGIRL -- Blogger Girl's great project.
Monday, August 24, 2009
WHAT ME BLOGGER GIRL AND LAVAGIRL HAVE IN COMMON
Well the moment my hand hit a keystroke on this blog -- I instantly became BLOGGER GIRL. For better or worse myself and LavaGirl have a few things in common. Yes, I must admit at one time I was actually a "LavaGirl" on a love-site. I won't tell you what happened but I do share a lot of the humour that LavaGirl portrays in her story.
LavaGirl was a little on the lonely side when she signed herself up on an on-line dating site. Of course she had just finished off some red wine. That made the whole situation a lot more fun and naughty. Once signed up on the site -- she was officially LAVAGIRL.
LavaGirl struggled to put a good spin on her profile. The picture was finally selected -- quite a nice one she thought to herself. While trying to work on her profile she was interrupted by a voice. A bewildered LavaGirl looked around -- no one was in her apartment. The beautiful voice introduced herself as LavaGirl's personal IM Angel. Angel promised to help LavaGirl whenever she landed into any trouble on her lovesite. LavaGirl pinched herself thinking she must be half asleep. You will laugh yourself silly when you find out about all the antics that happen between LavaGirl and her so-called heavenly friend.
Now LavaGirl was new at this game so when guys were suddenly on-line wanting to chat -- LavaGirl was amazed at how easy it all seemed. She thought how nice it was -- how they -- all warmed up to her so easily -- she thought that lol's meant lots of love when in fact it meant -- laugh out loud. That happened to me too -- I hate to admit.
So my fellow bloggers stayed tuned -- more hot -- juicy -- funny stories to come.
And don't forget that LavaGirl is always lava, lava hot! That should keep your fantasies or imagination going. Until next time. Signing off -- BLOGGER GIRL
LavaGirl was a little on the lonely side when she signed herself up on an on-line dating site. Of course she had just finished off some red wine. That made the whole situation a lot more fun and naughty. Once signed up on the site -- she was officially LAVAGIRL.
LavaGirl struggled to put a good spin on her profile. The picture was finally selected -- quite a nice one she thought to herself. While trying to work on her profile she was interrupted by a voice. A bewildered LavaGirl looked around -- no one was in her apartment. The beautiful voice introduced herself as LavaGirl's personal IM Angel. Angel promised to help LavaGirl whenever she landed into any trouble on her lovesite. LavaGirl pinched herself thinking she must be half asleep. You will laugh yourself silly when you find out about all the antics that happen between LavaGirl and her so-called heavenly friend.
Now LavaGirl was new at this game so when guys were suddenly on-line wanting to chat -- LavaGirl was amazed at how easy it all seemed. She thought how nice it was -- how they -- all warmed up to her so easily -- she thought that lol's meant lots of love when in fact it meant -- laugh out loud. That happened to me too -- I hate to admit.
So my fellow bloggers stayed tuned -- more hot -- juicy -- funny stories to come.
And don't forget that LavaGirl is always lava, lava hot! That should keep your fantasies or imagination going. Until next time. Signing off -- BLOGGER GIRL
Thursday, August 20, 2009
MY LAVA-GIRL PROJECT
I'm busy writing a fiction novel called LavaGirl.
LavaGirl is an ageless beauty and lots of fun. She finds herself in a moment of weakness looking for love on a love-site and soon discovers how much energy and imagination it takes just writing her profile. She almost gave up on the whole idea. Then the guy cruising starts and her head is in a whirl. I will give you small excerpts from my novel as time goes by. You will just laugh and love LavaGirl
One night LavaGirl started singing in the shower and came up with her very own signature song.
My heart's a creater of emotion
A steamy steamy love potion
Getting ready for a great big explosion
LavaGirl
That's why I'm a LavaGirl....Baby
Lava, LavaGirl....Lady
Lava LavaGirl Baby.... LavaGirl
I've looked in the grocery store....Baby
Been to the bookstore too.....Baby
Libraries are too dull....Baby
Bars are not very cool....Baby
So where's a lady go....Baby
Maybe Home Depot....Lady
Lava Lava Girl....Baby
Lava Lava Girl....Lady
LavaGirl
So if you want to play it safe
Always meet in a public place
Lava LavaGirl....Baby
Lava LavaGirl....Lady
LavaGirl
And say you meet someone whose true
Just make sure he's good to you
Lava LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
And say you both decide to make love
Always, always use a glove
Lava LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
That's why I'm a LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
This could be the next rags to riches story. Stay tuned for more about my LavaGirl Project. You go girl!
Thanks to all who send a toast
to the LavaGirl Writing Project.
LavaGirl is an ageless beauty and lots of fun. She finds herself in a moment of weakness looking for love on a love-site and soon discovers how much energy and imagination it takes just writing her profile. She almost gave up on the whole idea. Then the guy cruising starts and her head is in a whirl. I will give you small excerpts from my novel as time goes by. You will just laugh and love LavaGirl
One night LavaGirl started singing in the shower and came up with her very own signature song.
My heart's a creater of emotion
A steamy steamy love potion
Getting ready for a great big explosion
LavaGirl
That's why I'm a LavaGirl....Baby
Lava, LavaGirl....Lady
Lava LavaGirl Baby.... LavaGirl
I've looked in the grocery store....Baby
Been to the bookstore too.....Baby
Libraries are too dull....Baby
Bars are not very cool....Baby
So where's a lady go....Baby
Maybe Home Depot....Lady
Lava Lava Girl....Baby
Lava Lava Girl....Lady
LavaGirl
So if you want to play it safe
Always meet in a public place
Lava LavaGirl....Baby
Lava LavaGirl....Lady
LavaGirl
And say you meet someone whose true
Just make sure he's good to you
Lava LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
And say you both decide to make love
Always, always use a glove
Lava LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
That's why I'm a LavaGirl...Baby
Lava LavaGirl...Lady
LavaGirl
This could be the next rags to riches story. Stay tuned for more about my LavaGirl Project. You go girl!
Thanks to all who send a toast
to the LavaGirl Writing Project.
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